Add VSO meeting final checklist with Gitea access options

projects/va-strategy/VSO-MEETING-CHECKLIST.md

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+# VSO Meeting Final Checklist
+## Before 9:30 AM Meeting - February 11, 2026
+
+### 🔐 CRITICAL: Gitea Access for VSO
+
+**Issue:** All your VA documents are in Gitea at `http://10.0.10.2:3000/fred/obsidian-vault`
+
+**This is a LOCAL IP - VSO cannot access from outside your network!**
+
+**Options to share documents with VSO:**
+
+#### Option 1: VPN Access (if VSO has VPN)
+- VSO connects to your WireGuard VPN (10.0.9.0/24)
+- Can then access Gitea at http://10.0.10.2:3000
+- **Action:** Send VSO your WireGuard config (if appropriate)
+
+#### Option 2: Export to USB/Email
+- Export key documents to USB drive or email
+- **Files to export:**
+  - VA-STRATEGY-100-PERCENT-ROADMAP.md (print or PDF)
+  - VSO-MEETING-QUICK-GUIDE.md (print)
+  - va-updated-nexus-with-hypersomnia.md
+  - book, frederek_sleep.pdf
+- **Action:** Copy files to USB or attach to email
+
+#### Option 3: Print Key Documents
+- Print the essentials for VSO to review
+- **Print:**
+  - VSO-MEETING-QUICK-GUIDE.md (1 page)
+  - Relevant sections of roadmap
+  - Sleep study PDF
+
+#### Option 4: Screen Share During Meeting
+- Use Zoom/Teams/Discord to share screen
+- Walk through Gitea documents together
+- **Action:** Have meeting link ready
+
+#### Option 5: Temporary External Access (Advanced)
+- Use Caddy reverse proxy via VPS (vps.nianticbooks.com)
+- Create temporary subdomain: git.nianticbooks.com
+- **Risk:** Exposes Gitea to internet (use with caution)
+
+---
+
+### 📋 Meeting Prep Checklist
+
+**Documents Ready:**
+- [ ] Quick guide (print or on phone)
+- [ ] Full roadmap (for reference)
+- [ ] Sleep study PDF
+- [ ] Nexus statement (partially completed)
+- [ ] Current VA rating decision (60%)
+
+**Information to Bring:**
+- [ ] PTSD onset date (when symptoms began)
+- [ ] Sleep disturbance documentation date
+- [ ] Hypersomnia diagnosis date
+- [ ] Current PTSD medications list
+- [ ] Last 4 digits of SSN
+
+**Questions for VSO:**
+- [ ] Can we file TDIU (Form 21-8940) today?
+- [ ] Can we file sleep apnea supplemental claim today?
+- [ ] Timeline expectations for each claim?
+- [ ] Should I file PTSD increase now or wait for 2026 criteria?
+- [ ] Which secondary conditions to prioritize?
+
+**Forms to Complete (if possible today):**
+- [ ] VA Form 21-8940 (TDIU)
+- [ ] VA Form 20-0995 (Sleep apnea supplemental)
+- [ ] VA Form 21-686c (Kobe's dependent claim)
+
+---
+
+### 🎯 Meeting Goals
+
+**Priority 1:** File TDIU application (Form 21-8940)
+- You already qualify (60% combined)
+- Hypersomnia threatening CDL = strong case
+- Path to 100% compensation
+
+**Priority 2:** File sleep apnea supplemental claim
+- Previous denial can be overturned
+- Strong nexus evidence prepared
+- Target: 50% rating
+
+**Priority 3:** Kobe's dependent benefits
+- Review documentation
+- Timeline for filing
+- Doctor's letter needed
+
+---
+
+### ⏰ Timeline
+
+**Meeting:** 9:30 AM CST (15:30 UTC)
+**Current time:** [Check when you wake up]
+**Time remaining:** [Calculate]
+
+**Before meeting:**
+- [ ] Wake up, coffee ☕
+- [ ] Check this checklist
+- [ ] Decide how to share documents with VSO
+- [ ] Gather printed materials or prep screen share
+- [ ] Review quick guide one more time
+
+---
+
+### 💡 Remember
+
+**You're prepared.** You have:
+- ✅ Comprehensive strategy
+- ✅ All documentation organized
+- ✅ Clear priorities
+- ✅ Actionable next steps
+
+**The VSO is there to help you.** They'll guide you through the process.
+
+**Goal:** Walk out with TDIU and sleep apnea claims FILED today.
+
+**You've got this!** 💪
+
+---
+
+**Created:** 2026-02-11, 04:30 UTC  
+**For meeting:** 2026-02-11, 09:30 CST